“Andrew” wrote: “I have dated this girl for past two weeks. It’s going well so far, but the only thing that caught me off guard a little bit is that she wants me to worship her feet. I’m a guy who hates touching feet in general, what do I do?”
Liz says: Tell her you “hate touching feet” and you have no interest in worshipping hers. Being honest about what you will or won’t be comfortable in trying and what you know turns you off or on is imperative to living authentically and will guide you to the person who is right for you.
Don’t waste her time and yours pretending to be into something you’re not just to keep her around. A lot of people do that, and end up with years of resentment accumulated from not feeling good about being true to their own needs.
She sounds like she’s into female domination and male sexual submission. If a life of being bossed around and obeying her commands doesn’t sound like a blast to you, make it clear to her now.