The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

J.V. wrote: “My boyfriend wants to A2M (ass to mouth) with me. I’m concerned it could be dangerous though, do you have any experience or information to help me figure out if this is safe? I don’t mind doing either individually, I’m not sure about one right after another like that.”

Liz says: There’s a good chance he saw A2M in porn, but porn actors do some serious prep work before shooting those types of scenes. They usually fast (not eat) for a day before filming and clean out their system with an enema, so there is little chance of the receiver getting a mouthful of feces.

Going directly from anal sex to vaginal sex is a big no-no, because of the risk of carrying fecal matter into the urethra which could give you a urinary tract infection. But what about fecal matter in your mouth?

Ever heard of E. Coli? That’s the lovely bacteria that lives in all animal intestinal tracts and feces, but if consumed can give you a nasty (and sometimes deadly) case of diarrhea and vomiting. Click here to read what The Mayo Clinic says about E.Coli.

I’m going to go out on a limb here and say your man is turned on by the humiliation/domination of the act, but there are safer ways to play that out in the bedroom. If you’d rather not risk your health (and I think it’s safe to assume you don’t want to, hence your letter)  then you two can come up with alternatives that will make you both happy.


3 thoughts on “Her Boyfriend Wants To Go From A2M

  1. Joe V says:

    You can also use a barrier of some sort to have a cleaner experience. A dental dam is a good choice, and if you don’t have that available, you can craft on from a condom:

    Pull out the condom and cut off the tip. Then, cut along the length of the condom – you now have a rectangle that’ll keep your mouth clean.

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  2. Coyote from Orion says:

    Although Woody Allen made yet another good quote regarding the matter. I guess an adult who empathizes can hold 2 opposing values simultaneously and act with integrity

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  3. Coyote from Orion says:

    I see the header wasn’t referring to his comedy routine. 2 wotds I really like…. respect and hygiene

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