J.V. wrote: “My boyfriend wants to A2M (ass to mouth) with me. I’m concerned it could be dangerous though, do you have any experience or information to help me figure out if this is safe? I don’t mind doing either individually, I’m not sure about one right after another like that.”
Liz says: There’s a good chance he saw A2M in porn, but porn actors do some serious prep work before shooting those types of scenes. They usually fast (not eat) for a day before filming and clean out their system with an enema, so there is little chance of the receiver getting a mouthful of feces.
Going directly from anal sex to vaginal sex is a big no-no, because of the risk of carrying fecal matter into the urethra which could give you a urinary tract infection. But what about fecal matter in your mouth?
Ever heard of E. Coli? That’s the lovely bacteria that lives in all animal intestinal tracts and feces, but if consumed can give you a nasty (and sometimes deadly) case of diarrhea and vomiting. Click here to read what The Mayo Clinic says about E.Coli.
I’m going to go out on a limb here and say your man is turned on by the humiliation/domination of the act, but there are safer ways to play that out in the bedroom. If you’d rather not risk your health (and I think it’s safe to assume you don’t want to, hence your letter) then you two can come up with alternatives that will make you both happy.