The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

B.F. wrote: “Great blog, and great YouTube videos! I was researching pegging and found you. I then saw your video on how you love gay porn. My question is, what are your thoughts on bisexual porn or at least bisexual men?”

Liz says: Thanks! For anyone unaware of what videos he’s referring to, click here to watch  “All About Pegging” and “Why Do Straight Women Like Gay Porn?

I’ve never watched “bisexual” porn, as I have as much interest in watching women in porn as I do watching a barfing contest (no offense, women).

As far as my thoughts on bisexual men, what do you want to know? I’ve never dated a man who identified as bisexual, although I suspect at least a couple who just weren’t “out” yet.

Bisexual men and women have to put up with a lot of stereotyping and myths that can hurt their dating prospects. Namely, that they can’t commit to one person because one gender/sex couldn’t fulfill them, that they’re more likely to be unfaithful, and that they’re actually gay or lesbian and bisexuality doesn’t truly exist. None of these are true, at least not for everyone who is bisexual. None of these should be assumed, just like we shouldn’t assume a lesbian woman plays softball and a gay man loves theater.

Bisexuality is real and exists on the human sexual spectrum. We should do our best to accept and understand it as another sexual orientation.

Funny bisexuality meme

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