The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Thank you friends and fans, for supporting The Naked Advice and my mission to bring frank, educated, rational discussions about sex and relationships to the forefront with acceptance and love. Sex and love are too often muddied down in conversations, heavily influenced by religion, biased experiences, social norms, and sexism, which leads to unhealthy assumptions, unhealthy interpretations, repression, and unhealthy behaviors. My goal with The Naked Advice was to cut through the bullshit and discuss everything from a fact-based point-of-view, psychologically delving into everything from sexual fetishes to the proliferation of trigger warnings. If I shared my personal experiences, it was to add insight, not to speak as if my experiences could be extrapolated to everyone (which is a common mistake people do), and offer wisdom to those just starting out navigating the adult world of dating and sex.

My YouTube channel has almost 3 million views and thousands of subscribers, so thank you to everyone who’s watched my videos and sent me letters asking for advice or wanting to share their personal insights. I cherish you all! I’ve learned a ton from you guys. My channel’s videos (with the hundreds of comments from those sharing their personal experiences) serve as a great educational tool to those who study psychology, sociology, and sexology, as well as serving to be a place for those who might be struggling to accept their sexuality or kinks. I made my last video almost 2 years ago, after becoming exhausted by the weekly schedule of researching, writing, filming, and editing the videos. On top of that, the computer my husband and I were using was not meant to take on that workload and it was struggling to keep up with our demands.

The time has come, also, to walk away from my blog. I just can’t continue to be an unpaid intern after 3 years of offering free advice. Time is money, and I can’t reasonably justify putting so much time anymore into something that doesn’t pay. I tried to get The Naked Advice to be picked up as a syndicated column, and I don’t know if it’s because there’s only room for 1 Dan Savage in the world or if there was something about me or my blog that just didn’t work, or maybe The Naked Advice with Liz LaPoint simply sounded too “risqué” for some publications, but it did not get picked up. Perhaps I’m too impatient, because I’ve read several successful bloggers say it took them anywhere from 5-10 years to “make it”, but maybe they could afford to continue working for free. I cannot.

But I’m extremely proud of my work, and so appreciative of my husband (who would work on his days off filming and editing my videos, essentially never having a day off work) and so grateful to everyone who believed in what I did. Thank you, again, for watching, subscribing, and trusting me to give you sound advice. My massive apologies to anyone whose letter to me has gone unanswered.

A huge thank you goes to psychotherapist Rob Peach and physiotherapist Dr. Susie Gronski! They both helped me give advice using their specific expertise and I’m eternally grateful. Visit Rob Peach’s website and Dr. Gronski’s website.

This isn’t necessarily goodbye forever. Who knows what the future holds! For now, I am focusing on my new passion: painting. I’ve taken up painting with acrylics and have already sold one of my paintings and had 2 commissioned, so maybe this is the universe telling me I’m on the right track 😉

If you want to follow me on my new life as an artist, follow my Instagram: @liz_lapoint

If you don’t already follow me on Twitter, please do! I tweet a lot about sex, social politics, and psychology: @liz_lapoint

I will maintain my Only Fans account, so if you’re a fan of the artistic nude modeling I do, please sign up (18+ only): Only Fans

Plus, keep your eyes peeled for my husband’s mixed media graphic novel, The Chosen Nightmare, to be published this year. I modeled for the book as the main character (a lot of images from the book are on my Only Fans). Follow him on Twitter too: @terry2070

Happy 2018!

Love,

Liz LaPoint

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“Sea & Earth” original acrylic abstract painting on 16″ x 20″ canvas by Liz LaPoint

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11 thoughts on “A New Direction

  1. dismalabysmal says:

    Ms LaPoint, I’m sure there are lots of love/relationship/sex advice bloggers out there but, truthfully, there was no reason to seek any more out once I found The Naked Advice. What I enjoy most about your dialogs is how non-judgemental, understanding and supportive you are. No one is made to feel weird. No one is made to feel ashamed. No one is made to feel alone. If you’re really giving this up or going on hiatus then, well, you’ve got to do what’s best for you. But print media, digital media and television is really missing the boat on a fantastic talent and resource with your work. I hope you find something fulfilling and keep using your gift of making people feel more at ease with themselves.

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    1. Thank you for the kind words of support, Dismal!

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  2. Steve says:

    Your intelligent, mature, humorous insight will be sort missed. You have provided me with valuable advice more then once and I thank you for that. Best of luck to you and your family.

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  3. I am so incredibly proud of you, Liz. I am so lucky to share this life and journey with you.

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  4. Guy Hogan says:

    Good luck, Liz. I wish you and Terry the best.

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  5. Rob Peach says:

    Best of luck, Liz. Your hard work did not go unnoticed!

    Rob Peach, MSW RSW

    Associate Member, Board of Examiners in Sex Therapy and Counselling of Ontario (BESTCO) Professional Member, American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counsellors and Therapists (AASECT) Clinical Associate, International Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers (ATSA) Member, International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused (Couples) Therapy (ICEEFT)

    Suite 203, 14 Prince Arthur Ave. Toronto, ON M5T 1R8

    +1 416 795-7299 treatment@sextherapytoronto.org

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    1. Thank you! Happy New Year 😀

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  6. Coyote from Orion says:

    Good job Liz. Best wishes for you and your family. Thanks for listening to my shit. Helped me believe it or not x

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    1. Thanks for being a loyal reader, Coyote!

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  7. RedSportsCar says:

    Liz, thank YOU so much for your wonderful column/blog and for allowing us to comment. It’s been a delight reading, and you are so good at what you do! I look forward to following your art career as well. Congratulations on the commissions already, and I sincerely wish you all the best in your new ventures and continued success!

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    1. Thank you! And happy new year!

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