Zane wrote: “I am a straight male college student. I have fantasies about being cuckolded and being humiliated by feet in chastity. I want to meet girls who will actually be open to this kinda stuff. How do I find girls that would actually be open to this without telling every girl I have sex with that I have these fetishes?”
Liz says: You could bring it up casually in conversation, as in “I read about this guy who said he had a thing for being humiliated by his girlfriend, he loved to be made to lick her feet while sex was withheld. What would you do if your boyfriend was into that?” Then gauge her reaction. You’ll know if she’s open to sexual experimentation or into domination by her response.
But do this in person, not through text or a phone call. You can glean a lot from body language and facial expressions.
Good luck, Zane!