The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

K.S. wrote:  “I’ve been seeing someone who’s super hot and funny but when we’re not fucking he’s so dumb that I feel ashamed for sleeping with him. I can’t talk to him without rolling my eyes at his ignorant beliefs. He thinks vaccinations are a government conspiracy, for starters, and he’s voting for the opposite …

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S wrote: “Hi Liz, I’ve been seeing a colleague of mine lately. She’s amazing, beautiful and very sweet. But once I saw her feet and it really turned me off. It kind of changed my thoughts about her. How should I act?” Liz says: If something about someone is a big turn-off, you can’t force …

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Doug wrote: “I’m just about 23 and in college. I have had a good number of flings and stuff throughout college, but now that I am getting a little older I want to find something more real. But I have a problem that seems to be persisting. In high school, I wouldn’t get much action, still …

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Joe wrote: “My ex-girlfriend and I have been off and on for 4 years. We always feel a strong connection together, but it never seems to get past two months at a time. She has broken up with me a few times in the past, but reached out again after 10 months. We connected again …

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All couples fight. No two people are ever going to meld their lives and not have moments of disagreement, misunderstandings, and everything else that leads to hurt feelings, defensiveness, and frustration. So how do you know when the fights between you and your significant other are normal and when they are a sign you should …

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A.B. wrote: “I am at a loss when it comes to my boyfriend and I. I don’t even know where to begin. For being a relationship that has only been together for a little over a year we have had our fair share of struggles and disagreements. The one thing I can say is there …

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K.B. wrote: “So I’m 21 here from India. I met this girl ( 19 from the UK ) at one of the online forums I don’t remember which one exactly. It started off as fun just for a while but after a point things got serious as we started conversing every single day whenever both …

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S.B. asks: “Currently been seeing someone for quite a few years but she’s real basic: no drinking, no partying, hates my friends somewhat, hates things I like to do. But if I need help she’s there and she helps with finances but I just don’t really love her. Now I have a really good friend …

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“Allen” asked: “Until very recently, I was a 22 year old virgin, who is so painfully shy I can barely talk to women without getting flustered and nervous. I am in decent shape and not hideous, although a little nerdy. I recently met a girl in a coffee shop near my college who shared my …

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