The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

J.P wrote: “What’s your take on “bitchy/bratty” girls who know they are and enjoy it?” Liz says: It depends on what behaviors you view as “bitchy”. Sometimes, when a woman is simply asserting herself or otherwise being direct, men will perceive her as rude when the very same behavior from a man would be perceived as …

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Doug wrote: “I’m just about 23 and in college. I have had a good number of flings and stuff throughout college, but now that I am getting a little older I want to find something more real. But I have a problem that seems to be persisting. In high school, I wouldn’t get much action, still …

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Joe wrote: “My ex-girlfriend and I have been off and on for 4 years. We always feel a strong connection together, but it never seems to get past two months at a time. She has broken up with me a few times in the past, but reached out again after 10 months. We connected again …

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All couples fight. No two people are ever going to meld their lives and not have moments of disagreement, misunderstandings, and everything else that leads to hurt feelings, defensiveness, and frustration. So how do you know when the fights between you and your significant other are normal and when they are a sign you should …

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K.S. wrote: “My best friend is in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. He has beat her multiple times and recently when she spent the weekend at her friend’s house he showed up at their door in a drunken rage. They called the police on him and now she’s saying that she doesn’t want to …

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Hi Readers! Purity culture in the U.S., abstinence-only sex education (which is an oxymoron), and fathers who have a misguided idea of how to keep their daughters virgins until marriage are all topics that have been dissected, analyzed, and challenged for years now. I weigh in with my views, and bust a myth that still …

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Hey Ladies and Gents, I was recently approached to write for DigitalRomanceInc.com as a guest contributor. My piece was published last week. It’s titled “Why You Shouldn’t Get Married In Your 20s”. Click here to read it, and if you liked it, please give it a big fat thumbs up on FB and tweet it! …

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D. S. asks: “Hello. My friend who I have made online is having problems with their abusive and unsafe family setting. I would like to help them, but it is difficult because they refuse to “turn in” their mother. Please help me in what I need to do. It is almost impossible to get them to …

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Maria asks: “My question is not specific to dating, but it relates to emotional abuse, so I thought you could help. I have finally come to realize (I’m 49) that my mother is probably BPD. She will fly into a rage for no reason, then 10 minutes later it’s like it never happened and you’re not …

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Anonymous Gal said: “I have been in a relationship with a married man for 6 years. I tried to forget him and move on in my life but he won’t let me go. He says he loves me and if he loses me that will be his biggest loss in life. I don’t want to …

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