The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Emily wrote: “I’m having some trouble with my boyfriend. He’s not had a lot of confidence in the bedroom with me, and while that seemed normal enough, it’s actually gotten worse as we’ve tried to deal with it. He confessed to me that before we were together he watched a lot of porn. He says that …

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E wrote: “Hello Liz, I’m 14 years old and I have a little penis and a ballbusting fetish. 1. My penis is 6 cm, how can I make it bigger? 2. I take everyday more than 40 powerful kicks to my nuts, is it over with my nuts?” Liz says: Who on Earth is kicking …

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Everyday in the U.S. more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends. Nearly 1 in 5 teenage girls who have been in a relationship said a boyfriend threatened violence or self-harm when she wanted to break-up. Domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women—more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes …

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“Mark” wrote:  “I’m 22, I often watch your videos and I really love your style of videoblogging! Your style of speaking is so addicting to listen to! Your speaking skills often bring you very far I think. I always have very much problems to clean stuff and to throw away things. I don’t know why this …

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Everyone’s talking about trigger warnings these days. College professors are coming out against them. Are they necessary? Do any studies prove their efficacy? Could they potentially backfire, and actually cause more harm than good? In this week’s video I weigh in on the controversy, so click here to watch and remember to weigh in with …

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I’m sure many of you are already aware of the dudes behind the movement to slut-shame women into staying virgins before marriage. #PoppedCherryDontMarry and #NoHymenNoDiamond have been sporadically trending on Twitter since October 2014, much to the chagrin of intelligent people everywhere. In this week’s video, I share my opinions on why there’s a subset …

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Howdy y’all, In this week’s video I discuss the possibility that men also suffer from hormonal fluctuations, aka Irritable Male Syndrome. IMS is still a mystery to the medical community, but not to me, LOL. Click here to watch it and let me know what you think: do guys get PMS too? Liz

Maria asks: “My question is not specific to dating, but it relates to emotional abuse, so I thought you could help. I have finally come to realize (I’m 49) that my mother is probably BPD. She will fly into a rage for no reason, then 10 minutes later it’s like it never happened and you’re not …

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K.C. wrote: “The guy I’ve been seeing for a couple months has been acting more distant lately. He doesn’t initiate seeing each other anymore and doesn’t respond to my texts or calls as quickly as he used to. We used to have really hot sex and talk all night, spending the whole weekend together, but …

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  Anonymous in CA asks: “I am 17 and clearly being courted by this boy who comes to my house to give me presents, writes me songs, etc. It’s very, very sweet, but I don’t feel the same way. I tried to tell him nicely but he refused to listen and continued. He even got my …

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