The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Megan wrote: “Hi Liz! I’d like to know what you think about public cross-dressing. If the crossdresser derives any sense of erotic excitement from being seen in public, does that throw up any ethical red flags? If the person is not exclusively motivated by sexual excitement but experiences some, does this mean they are involving …

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J.O. wrote: “Hey Liz, so I have a shrinking fetish and I told my girlfriend about it but she does not like acknowledging it. She says it’s weird and she doesn’t like it. I have brought up my shrinking fetish to some other friends that are girls and they actually talk about it with me. …

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K wrote: “Me and my girlfriend are very young (I’m 21 and she’s 20) but we have been dating 5 years and we have already dabbled in a swinger-ish cuckold/hotwife relationship for about 2 years now.We both love it but now she wants to fuck my best friend (which is crazy hot to both of …

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There’s a lot of bad advice out there. Sometimes it’s only bad because it’s too simplistic, like “Good communication is the most important for making love last”. Sure, good communication is important, but what exactly is “good” communication? And what about things like compatible personalities, sexual and/or romantic chemistry, and shared values? I recently came …

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It is often spoken to the nervous bride or groom from well-meaning friends or relatives. The fiancé wonders why he’s been procrastinating setting a wedding date and his best friend says it, the bride is crying in the bathroom before the ceremony while her maid of honor says it. “You just have cold feet! Everyone …

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K.S. wrote: “My best friend is in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. He has beat her multiple times and recently when she spent the weekend at her friend’s house he showed up at their door in a drunken rage. They called the police on him and now she’s saying that she doesn’t want to …

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John asked: “This girl has come into my life and she’s very damaged from past relationships. I’m not as much seeking damaged women to help them, I just really like this girl and want to help her. She doesn’t trust me, right, which why would she because she doesn’t know me that well. We have …

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Fredrik asked: “I’ve been friends with a girl for quite some years now and we get on really well together. I’ve gone back and forth on how I feel about us being together in a relationship and it seems that I always end up coming back to the idea that we should. At times I’ve …

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It’s often said that if someone really loves you, they will be there for you when times are tough. Many a meme and relationship article remind us to appreciate the friends and mates who remain close when you’re pinching pennies after a job loss, struggling to deal with a drinking problem, or overcoming a bout …

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