The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Lindsay wrote: “Hi Liz! A bit of background may be required here because it’s a bit complicated. To start off, I’m a bisexual non-op trans woman (male to female), meaning I still have a penis and plan on keeping it, and my current girlfriend is cis (non-trans). Our relationship was going great until unfortunately, I …

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Liz: “I’m happy we connected over Twitter a couple of years ago! I enjoy reading your balanced, reasonable, experienced answers to the letters you receive on your website TheTaoOfIndifference.com” Demetrius: “Thanks Liz! I’m glad we connected on Twitter all those years back as well. I think you take a very balanced and reasonable approach to …

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Romantic Comedies/Dramas/Thrillers are usually too cheesy and ridiculous to me. Love Actually? Way overrated. There’s Something About Mary? Dumb humor, barely passable. The Wedding Singer? Hated it. You get the idea. I agree with almost every accusation hurled at romantic films: they perpetuate unhealthy notions of love and the idea that any guy can convince …

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Greetings, Readers! As many of you know, my husband is a photographer and his latest work featuring me made its debut today. I’m proud of this novel. We worked hard on this collaboration and hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it! While it’s not what we consider pornography, it does contain …

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B.F. wrote: “Ran across your videos and figured I should write you for advice. My wife and I tried cuckolding starting back in 2006. She had started working and mentioned to me that she had been hit on and to my surprise, I liked it. She mentioned she liked the attention. Long story short, she …

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B.P. wrote: “I just wanted to thank you for your titillagnia video, and others that you have published. Thank you for your compassionate view on the fetish. I am a 38 year old pastor who has such a fetish. I have hidden it all of my life, and at one period would have killed myself …

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Hi Guys! Since I write mostly about dating, some of you might be pleasantly surprised to read this recent piece I wrote for Digital Romance Inc, How My Husband and I Keep the Romance Alive. I know, there’s like a bazillion other articles about that topic, but I promise mine is different 😉 Please share …

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Congratulations, America! We’re evolving and finally catching up to the rest of the developed world! The landmark United States Supreme Court ruling for marriage equality made me and my husband cry today. We shed happy tears as we read the headlines and articles announcing that homosexuals have a right to marry, a right that all …

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Fashion designer Carolina Herrera repeated a cliche recently in an interview, during which she was asked about the current celebrity/fashion trend of naked dresses (exhibit A, below). She dismissed the trend, and said, “In life, there should be a little mystery.” Ah, she trotted out the “mystery” line. You’ve heard it before. It’s used to …

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Polly asked: “I’m engaged to be married to a wonderful man, who cares for me and has a lucrative business. My parents are thrilled, my sister seems jealous, and our wedding is planned for this summer, right after I graduate with my Master’s degree. So why am I writing you? I’ve never expressed this to …

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