The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Games are fun. My favorites include Trivial Pursuit, Cards Against Humanity, and Scrabble. I’ve always had a fondness for words, trivia, humanity, and fun. But you know what I’ve never played before? A game for lovers, a sensual, romantic game designed to inspire lust and make your heart race. Well, never until last night! The …

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All couples fight. No two people are ever going to meld their lives and not have moments of disagreement, misunderstandings, and everything else that leads to hurt feelings, defensiveness, and frustration. So how do you know when the fights between you and your significant other are normal and when they are a sign you should …

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Anonymous wrote: “I am in a relationship of 2 years with the love of my life. Seriously, he is the best. However there is that one guy that I can’t get over. He is visiting for a few more days and we have hung out with a group of people because I honestly do not …

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For a few decades now, women have been spreading awareness of how narrowly defined female beauty is and how thinness has been idolized to the point that females will starve themselves and sometimes die in their quest for the “ideal body”. We blamed fashion magazines, we blamed men, we blamed Hollywood. We asked, “Why are …

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Lindsay wrote: “Hi Liz! A bit of background may be required here because it’s a bit complicated. To start off, I’m a bisexual non-op trans woman (male to female), meaning I still have a penis and plan on keeping it, and my current girlfriend is cis (non-trans). Our relationship was going great until unfortunately, I …

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Liz: “I’m happy we connected over Twitter a couple of years ago! I enjoy reading your balanced, reasonable, experienced answers to the letters you receive on your website TheTaoOfIndifference.com” Demetrius: “Thanks Liz! I’m glad we connected on Twitter all those years back as well. I think you take a very balanced and reasonable approach to …

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Romantic Comedies/Dramas/Thrillers are usually too cheesy and ridiculous to me. Love Actually? Way overrated. There’s Something About Mary? Dumb humor, barely passable. The Wedding Singer? Hated it. You get the idea. I agree with almost every accusation hurled at romantic films: they perpetuate unhealthy notions of love and the idea that any guy can convince …

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Greetings, Readers! As many of you know, my husband is a photographer and his latest work featuring me made its debut today. I’m proud of this novel. We worked hard on this collaboration and hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed making it! While it’s not what we consider pornography, it does contain …

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B.F. wrote: “Ran across your videos and figured I should write you for advice. My wife and I tried cuckolding starting back in 2006. She had started working and mentioned to me that she had been hit on and to my surprise, I liked it. She mentioned she liked the attention. Long story short, she …

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B.P. wrote: “I just wanted to thank you for your titillagnia video, and others that you have published. Thank you for your compassionate view on the fetish. I am a 38 year old pastor who has such a fetish. I have hidden it all of my life, and at one period would have killed myself …

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