The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

A.S. wrote: “Hi Liz, I am a big fan of yours, I love the videos you used to make. The best part was the occasional laughs you had while reading something weird. It really turned me on ’cause it looked like you were humiliating those guys. Anyway, coming on to my question: I like watching CEI …

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S.C. wrote: “So happy your back! I hope all has been well. My wife and I are relatively young (both 26), married for 6 years with two young children. We argue on occasion but for the most part we have a loving and trusting marriage… but the romance department isnt great. Basically, we will have …

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Steve wrote: “Hi Liz, do you think it’s okay to ask a partner to do something in the bedroom that you know they don’t particularly enjoy? I love anal play (receiving), my wife…not so much. She will sometimes offer it on special occasions (birthday, anniversary) and I try to hold off outside of those times …

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Travis wrote: “Hi Liz! Do you have any advice for an adult virgin male on having sex for the first time? Also, should I tell the lady that I am a virgin beforehand?” Liz says: How important is it to you that she knows it’s your first time? A woman who just wants to get laid …

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Todd wrote: “I have two fetishes: a woman wearing pantyhose headscissors me, and I love to have a woman wearing pantyhose step on my throat. My question is how can I present these fetishes to a woman and make them sound less dangerous because I like to pass out from both of them. Please let …

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Aaron wrote: “Hi Liz, happy to see you’re back. I have a girlfriend who is very willing to perform oral on me and does so nearly everyday. She even lets me cum anywhere I want (mouth, breasts, face, etc). Anyway she loves to play with my balls while she does it and it always makes …

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David wrote: “You seem to dispel a lot of myths about sex that constrain people. I was wondering if you had any thoughts on the alpha/beta binary and, to a lesser extent, the dom/sub binary. This is specifically all within the bedroom. I guess the biggest concern about alpha/beta is whether being conscientious, not being …

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Steve wrote: “Hey Liz, hope all is well. I have a question that seems rather embarrassing but here goes. I have struggled with eating issues for ten years, going through behaviors like vomiting, extreme dieting, exercising constantly, etc. I’m not able to afford therapy but recently I’ve made some progress limiting this behavior. However, I’ve …

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Zane wrote: “I am a straight male college student. I have fantasies about being cuckolded and being humiliated by feet in chastity. I want to meet girls who will actually be open to this kinda stuff. How do I find girls that would actually be open to this without telling every girl I have sex …

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Adam wrote: “So I was adopted from another country and my parents brought me to the United States. They were very European and decided not to circumcise me. I have heard that it’s a major turn off to girls. But I have also heard that girls really like it. I have never had an issue with …

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