The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

George wrote: “Hello Miss Liz, I hope everything is going well. I’m an 18 year old male who is in high school. I generally value my studies highly over romantic relationships, but recently, I’ve been spending a lot of time looking up escorts on various websites or independent sites. I’ve even managed to talk with …

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Christian wrote: “This is probably an atypical question. I am Argentinean male, engineer in my late 20s. I am working on finding the right person, but I am struggling a bit, because I tend to think the girls are a bit “turn off” by A) me not being American (came to USA at 19 years …

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A.L. wrote: “I wanted to get your opinion on the current dating scene for young adults. I’m a 19-year-old straight guy and a university student. As you may know, that’s a time and a place full of partying, one-nighters, casual sex and whatnot. Problem is, I’m more of a romantic person. Most parties don’t interest …

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Liz: “I’m happy we connected over Twitter a couple of years ago! I enjoy reading your balanced, reasonable, experienced answers to the letters you receive on your website TheTaoOfIndifference.com” Demetrius: “Thanks Liz! I’m glad we connected on Twitter all those years back as well. I think you take a very balanced and reasonable approach to …

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Thomas wrote: “I lost my virginity a little more than 2 years ago and hadn’t had sex since, until last week I had sex with a girl and I feel I performed poorly. I however feel a huge burden lifted off my shoulders. Ya see, both of these times I really wasn’t in a relationship …

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“Quincy” wrote: “I’m a boy who is 16 years old and I have a chastity fetish. I already know that I like to be submissive when I have sex  (I cross-dress in the closet but I want to during sex). I’m finding it extremely difficult to find people to date who are into the same …

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Vick wrote: “I have two different questions concerning gender equality in dating. The first is paying for the date and the second concerns communication while dating. As a man I always pay for the date just to avoid the awkward discussion. This especially applies for the first date. It is nice however, when the girl …

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Itachi310 wrote: “Hey Liz, I just came across your channel and you have a lot of useful advice I can use daily, especially in relationships. I wanted to know if you ever touched on the topic of some men still being a virgin past a certain age like 19-20 (there are A LOT who are …

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“Matt” wrote: “I just found your channel. After looking over a few of your video titles it sounds like a pretty interesting channel. I’m looking forward to watching your videos. So I have a question for you: every female now owns a pair of yoga pants, right? Sure, when they first came out they were …

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One day, after one of those deliriously busy lunch shifts at the restaurant ended, my friend Jenna and I gleefully ordered at the computer terminal a pizza and a big salad to share. “Oh, can we leave out the wontons and the scallions from the salad? Wontons are empty calories and I hate scallions”, Jenna …

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