John wrote: “I am drawn to the lifestyle of a female-led relationship. Men who love their wives and work hard everyday so that their wives do not need to have jobs. When they come home from work, they cook and clean. Although they make the money and pay the bills, the excess money is controlled …
V.B. wrote: “I am a sexually submissive male, and have a lot of fetishes, all related someway to FemDom. I have been addicted to financial dominaton for a while now and I need advice. It is a dangerous fetish and it has made me broke, shy, and less confident. I think foot fetish and humiliation triggers me …
Everyone’s talking about trigger warnings these days. College professors are coming out against them. Are they necessary? Do any studies prove their efficacy? Could they potentially backfire, and actually cause more harm than good? In this week’s video I weigh in on the controversy, so click here to watch and remember to weigh in with …
K.S. wrote: “My best friend is in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. He has beat her multiple times and recently when she spent the weekend at her friend’s house he showed up at their door in a drunken rage. They called the police on him and now she’s saying that she doesn’t want to …
D. S. asks: “Hello. My friend who I have made online is having problems with their abusive and unsafe family setting. I would like to help them, but it is difficult because they refuse to “turn in” their mother. Please help me in what I need to do. It is almost impossible to get them to …
Maria asks: “My question is not specific to dating, but it relates to emotional abuse, so I thought you could help. I have finally come to realize (I’m 49) that my mother is probably BPD. She will fly into a rage for no reason, then 10 minutes later it’s like it never happened and you’re not …
The recent events in Baltimore in response to Freddie Gray’s death, as well as the protests that have occurred in many other cities (Ferguson, et al) have initiated national conversations on race, politics, good cops vs. bad cops, and the “proper” way to respond to decades and centuries of abuse, oppression, and institutionalized racism. There’s …
Paul asked: “I recently broke up with my girlfriend, and I’m feeling guilty. She’s a wonderful woman, but hell to live with, and I just couldn’t take it anymore. In her eyes I was a terrible person, although she wanted me to stay. I’m not a terrible person, and since leaving her I’ve felt much …
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