The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Thomas wrote: “I lost my virginity a little more than 2 years ago and hadn’t had sex since, until last week I had sex with a girl and I feel I performed poorly. I however feel a huge burden lifted off my shoulders. Ya see, both of these times I really wasn’t in a relationship …

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John wrote: “I am drawn to the lifestyle of a female-led relationship. Men who love their wives and work hard everyday so that their wives do not need to have jobs. When they come home from work, they cook and clean. Although they make the money and pay the bills, the excess money is controlled …

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Curious wrote: “So recently I’ve been discovering my sexuality and I think I’ve found my answer. I believe I am bisexual but I have a preference for men. I would not turn down a female if she was someone I was interested in for the right reasons. I feel comfortable in my identity it’s just …

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There’s a lot of bad advice out there. Sometimes it’s only bad because it’s too simplistic, like “Good communication is the most important for making love last”. Sure, good communication is important, but what exactly is “good” communication? And what about things like compatible personalities, sexual and/or romantic chemistry, and shared values? I recently came …

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B.J. wrote: “Hi Liz. I have a question…is it normal for a man to prefer oral sex over actual intercourse? It seems when my wife and I engage in intercourse, it’s not as pleasurable for me as when she performs oral sex on me. This has caused some frustration in our marriage but my wife …

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J.O. wrote: “Hey Liz, I saw your video about the giantess fetish. I do have that, but how do I tell my girlfriend about it and how do I get her into it?” Liz says: Show her my YouTube video! That’s a great way to get her honest opinion, before you tell her that’s what …

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Vick wrote: “I have two different questions concerning gender equality in dating. The first is paying for the date and the second concerns communication while dating. As a man I always pay for the date just to avoid the awkward discussion. This especially applies for the first date. It is nice however, when the girl …

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It is often spoken to the nervous bride or groom from well-meaning friends or relatives. The fiancé wonders why he’s been procrastinating setting a wedding date and his best friend says it, the bride is crying in the bathroom before the ceremony while her maid of honor says it. “You just have cold feet! Everyone …

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Anon wrote: “Hey Liz, I saw your YouTube video about ball busting fetishes and I wanted to weigh in and seek advice on the topic. I don’t know what it is. I stumbled upon ball busting on the Internet and ever since then I’ve been obsessed or just intrigued by the act. I have once …

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S.T. wrote: “Hi, I watched your YouTube video on belly button fetishes. I have always had a fetish for stomachs and navels. It has ruined my life. It has made dating hard for me and  I feel like I don’t fit in. Do you have any advice for me? I feel creepy having this fetish …

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