The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

David wrote: “You seem to dispel a lot of myths about sex that constrain people. I was wondering if you had any thoughts on the alpha/beta binary and, to a lesser extent, the dom/sub binary. This is specifically all within the bedroom. I guess the biggest concern about alpha/beta is whether being conscientious, not being …

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Steve wrote: “Hey Liz, hope all is well. I have a question that seems rather embarrassing but here goes. I have struggled with eating issues for ten years, going through behaviors like vomiting, extreme dieting, exercising constantly, etc. I’m not able to afford therapy but recently I’ve made some progress limiting this behavior. However, I’ve …

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Doug wrote:¬†“I’m just about 23 and in college. I have had a good number of flings and stuff throughout college, but now that I am getting a little older I want to find something more real. But I have a problem that seems to be persisting. In high school, I wouldn’t get much action, still …

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Zane wrote: “I am a straight male college student. I have fantasies about being cuckolded and being humiliated by feet in chastity. I want to meet girls who will actually be open to this kinda stuff. How do I find girls that would actually be open to this without telling every girl I have sex …

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Joe wrote: “My ex-girlfriend and I have been off and on for 4 years. We always feel a strong connection together, but it never seems to get past two months at a time. She has broken up with me a few times in the past, but reached out again after 10 months. We connected again …

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Hey guys! As many of you know, I had walked away from my blog a couple of months ago, but I realized after some time that it didn’t feel right to abandon what I’d worked so hard to accomplish. I’m very proud of The Naked Advice and decided I’m not ready to give up seeing …

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Thank you friends and fans, for supporting The Naked Advice and my mission to bring frank, educated, rational discussions about sex and relationships to the forefront with acceptance and love. Sex and love are too often muddied down in conversations, heavily influenced by religion, biased experiences, social norms, and sexism, which leads to unhealthy assumptions, …

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Adam wrote: “So I was adopted from another country and my parents brought me to the United States.¬†They were very European and decided not to circumcise me. I have heard that it’s a major turn off to girls. But I have also heard that girls really like it. I have never had an issue with …

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Gary wrote: “I would like to ask such an obvious question that I don’t know if it has been asked? After I cum (from either having sex or masturbating) how come I feel so tired and physically can’t move? I do literally just want to sleep.” Liz says: Do you lie down on your back …

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B.K. wrote: ” I’m a 34 year old virgin. I work 7 days a week, soon to be 80 hours a week. I’m over 415 lbs, and I have a very small penis. Extremely shy when liking someone at first sight and scared to approach. Help!” Liz says: The larger a man is, the smaller …

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