The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

  Stan wrote:  “I’m a 24 year old guy who’s been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We are happy and I love her, but I have to fantasize about being with other people when we have sex. I’m attracted to her, so is it weird I can’t orgasm unless I’m imagining being with anyone …

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Steve wrote: “My wife has this fantasy of having sex at one of our parent’s houses, which really means mine since they have spare bedrooms. We were over for a weekend and she kept asking. The thought of doing it in the same house of my parents made me frankly want to vomit. I’m having …

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Zach wrote: “Hey Liz, a couple months ago I found out that I have a wedgie fetish. I don’t know if it is the humiliation or the pain that I like about it, but ever since then whenever I’m alone I pull my underwear over my head or hang myself by my underwear to whatever …

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Pickle Person wrote: “I’m a guy with a sexual fetish for long fingernails (not too long, usually the length that people get when they get their nails done). I beat off to pictures of nails and I have conversations with female friends about their nails. I wanted to know if you can make a video …

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G.S. wrote: “I love what you do on your blog. I am a naturist/nudist but I am still turned on by wanting to do CFnm situations (single so I can’t). Even though as I wrote I am so used to seeing naked females, I want to see them in control of me (with her and …

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Tom wrote: “I have this fantasy and I wonder if it is wrong or perverted? I have joined a few MILF sites and I see these incredibly sexy older women in their 40s and 50s having sex for the very first time on film with young black men. It gets me very aroused and I …

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B.J. wrote: “Hi Liz. I have a question…is it normal for a man to prefer oral sex over actual intercourse? It seems when my wife and I engage in intercourse, it’s not as pleasurable for me as when she performs oral sex on me. This has caused some frustration in our marriage but my wife …

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“Ben” wrote: “Hi Liz, I’ve got a few questions and hopefully you can help me out with them 🙂 1. Ballbusting: I’m into ballbusting but only videos of people doing it. I’ve always wanted to do it with my girlfriend but I’m scared it will hurt too much and also scared that when I ask her …

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J.S. wrote: “I have a ball busting fetish and I need to know if that is normal.” Liz says: Normal as in typical or common? No. Normal as in not mentally ill? Probably. There are no research studies on this particular sexual kink/fetish, but you can find plenty of speculative opinions by experts and participants …

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