The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Dee Dee wrote: “Ok, I don’t really know if this is a problem or not. Maybe you can help. I like to compliment strangers. Maybe not every day but often. I work with people so I’m around them a lot. I do it with no agenda or motive or any particular intentions. Of course, I …

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All couples fight. No two people are ever going to meld their lives and not have moments of disagreement, misunderstandings, and everything else that leads to hurt feelings, defensiveness, and frustration. So how do you know when the fights between you and your significant other are normal and when they are a sign you should …

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J.M. wrote: “I am a 21 yr old male virgin but I am not a ”typical” male virgin; I’m reasonably popular, don’t play video games, enjoy sports, and have a toned upper body. Also, I’m not socially awkward, and I can talk to and hold conversations with girls whether I have a crush on them …

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Steven wrote: “I had long fantasized about trying anal play (myself on the recieving end). I broached the subject to my wife of five years and she was extremely against trying this. Not wanting to push her but having trouble shaking the urge to try this, I opted to try it out alone. I mistakenly …

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David wrote: “So there is this girl I really like. We went out once a long time ago (Dec 2015). We went out again recently and had a great time. I made the date romantic and there was a lot of flirting and she touched me on the arm and shoulder. We ended the night …

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R.L.G. wrote: “My girlfriend knows I have a fetish: I like my dick being stomped on, trampled on, and stood on barefoot. But I’m not sure how to ask her. How do I tell her I want to feel my balls crush under her feet?” Liz says: You mean she knows but hasn’t offered yet? …

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M.D. wrote: “Let me start by saying it’s been really refreshing and comforting to watch such an intelligent, open-minded and attractive woman address such “taboo” subjects. Your videos are fun, informative, and liberating. Through watching some of your videos and reading your website you have already addressed my fetish to some degree. I love wearing …

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This is what’s wrong with our nation’s discourse today. Even journalists and “News Personalities” behave like Internet trolls. Internet trolls are people who enjoy intentionally saying inflammatory, ignorant things in order to get a reaction. They espouse extremist views, knowingly lie or say misleading statements, and do so mainly for the attention and sadistic pleasure …

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Charles wrote:  “My wife, despite us both only being in our early twenties, has a pretty low sex drive. We get along well and communicate well but we aren’t always on the same page sexually, so I masturbate pretty frequently, usually 4-5 times a week. I always do it in private, but I’m curious how …

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There’s a lot of bad advice out there. Sometimes it’s only bad because it’s too simplistic, like “Good communication is the most important for making love last”. Sure, good communication is important, but what exactly is “good” communication? And what about things like compatible personalities, sexual and/or romantic chemistry, and shared values? I recently came …

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