The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Anon wrote: “Hey Liz, I saw your YouTube video about ball busting fetishes and I wanted to weigh in and seek advice on the topic. I don’t know what it is. I stumbled upon ball busting on the Internet and ever since then I’ve been obsessed or just intrigued by the act. I have once …

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R.L. wrote: “I’d be interested in hearing your take on me. I am straight. My girl describes her self as a lesbian with penis envy. I have never had intercourse with her. I have given her oral and received (very rough) anal with oversized dildos. She is dominant. Over time I agreed to be feminized. …

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“David” wrote: “So I met this girl in college, I sat next to her talked and flirted she seemed cool with it. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me. The problem is she doesn’t text me back regularly. I text her she replies the next day sometimes longer but she …

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BB88 wrote: “I am a 28 year old African-American and I have a question. I went on a date with a 24 year old white girl and the date was awesome then after the date we went to her place and she gave me a blow job. The next time we went after a date …

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“GD” asked: “I have a question. I am 24 year old white male and I have a white sister, she is 21 years old and she is dating a black man who is 29 and me and my sister have rooms next to each other, only a wall separates us. Sometimes when I am at home …

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K.S. wrote: “My best friend is in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. He has beat her multiple times and recently when she spent the weekend at her friend’s house he showed up at their door in a drunken rage. They called the police on him and now she’s saying that she doesn’t want to …

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This week’s video was inspired by all the letters I’ve received in which someone writes something like, “My boyfriend is amazing and I love him but he’s never referred to me as his girlfriend” or “What do you think it means that this girl I’m seeing acts like I’m the greatest thing since Velcro when …

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Chuck wrote: “First off, I’m shy and I have a hard time meeting women (people in general). Think “Raj” on ‘The Big Bang Theory’. I have a feeling about what that is due to, but it’s major and not really the point of this. (Yes, I’m trying to work on it, but…it’s a bit of …

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M.C. asks: “I don’t know why but the last 4 girls I met online and asked out ghosted on me after the first date. I think I’m a pretty cool guy, I’m smart, have a great job, am reasonably good-looking. I’m not asking for much, I’m not picky, but I do expect to at least …

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Frustrated and Confused asks: “I’m a 26 year old woman who’s been seeing a guy for about a month now. He and I were set up by a mutual friend, because she told me he is newly single and “he’s on the Paleo diet, too!” While eating the same diet is hardly enough for a …

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