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Interview With Andrew Jasko, Clinical Psychologist In Training & Religious Trauma Recovery Coach

  I discovered Andrew from listening to an episode of the podcast Voices of Deconversion and quickly found his story both relatable and incredibly insightful. His experiences are unfortunately not unique and I believe it’s important his work (and the similar works of others) should be heard as much as possible in a culture that …

Monogamy Is Important To Him But Ex Wanted To Have An Open Relationship

  Sam wrote: “I had a question that’s been bugging me a lot lately. I know that people can be in whatever relationship they want and all that. But monogamy has always been important for me. The problem is that I keep hearing people say things about how hard monogamy is and how you can’t …

His Friend and Her Mom Both Want Him

  CCD wrote: “There is this girl (let’s call her Amber) that I’ve been friends with for years now and she found out that I had a foot fetish while we were in Jr. high. Ever since then for the past 6-7 years she has been really cool about it and when we would hangout …

Is It ‘Weird’ That A Straight Guy Fantasizes About Men?

  Stan wrote:  “I’m a 24 year old guy who’s been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We are happy and I love her, but I have to fantasize about being with other people when we have sex. I’m attracted to her, so is it weird I can’t orgasm unless I’m imagining being with anyone …

Bi-Curious Guy Wants To Know If He’s Unwittingly Involving Others In A Fetish

Megan wrote: “Hi Liz! I’d like to know what you think about public cross-dressing. If the crossdresser derives any sense of erotic excitement from being seen in public, does that throw up any ethical red flags? If the person is not exclusively motivated by sexual excitement but experiences some, does this mean they are involving …

He’s Into Female Domination But Can’t Obey This One Command

A.S. wrote: “Hi Liz, I am a big fan of yours, I love the videos you used to make. The best part was the occasional laughs you had while reading something weird. It really turned me on ’cause it looked like you were humiliating those guys. Anyway, coming on to my question: I like watching CEI …

Should He Talk His Partner Into Changing Her Appearance For His ‘Fetish’?

Frederick wrote: “Long acrylic and natural fingernails are a huge turn on for me. I’ve had this fetish since I was 6 and long nails can bump a female from an 8 to a 10. The problem is the girls I date or talk to don’t get their nails frequently done. How should I (if …

Her Feet Turned Him Off, Now What?

S wrote: “Hi Liz, I’ve been seeing a colleague of mine lately. She’s amazing, beautiful and very sweet. But once I saw her feet and it really turned me off. It kind of changed my thoughts about her. How should I act?” Liz says: If something about someone is a big turn-off, you can’t force …

He Likes Women Who Bust His Balls But Won’t Date Them

Thomas wrote: “Hey Liz. I’m 23. My question is about ball-busting. I can’t remember when I got into it exactly but eventually about a year and a half ago I started seeking this from girls. I built up a tolerance and now it’s all I like. Now I don’t even try to have sex or …