The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Frederick wrote: “Long acrylic and natural fingernails are a huge turn on for me. I’ve had this fetish since I was 6 and long nails can bump a female from an 8 to a 10. The problem is the girls I date or talk to don’t get their nails frequently done. How should I (if …

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S wrote: “Hi Liz, I’ve been seeing a colleague of mine lately. She’s amazing, beautiful and very sweet. But once I saw her feet and it really turned me off. It kind of changed my thoughts about her. How should I act?” Liz says: If something about someone is a big turn-off, you can’t force …

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Thomas wrote: “Hey Liz. I’m 23. My question is about ball-busting. I can’t remember when I got into it exactly but eventually about a year and a half ago I started seeking this from girls. I built up a tolerance and now it’s all I like. Now I don’t even try to have sex or …

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Maynard James Keenan wrote: “So here is the skinny. My girlfriend is a little smoking hot redhead and has for the better part of the year been telling me she wants a woman on board. This usually happens during bad girl/bad boy heated pillow talk. Now she occasionally points out prospects during grocery shopping extravaganzas. …

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Marc wrote: “I found you via your YouTube channel and thought I’d ask you something. Apologies first, I’m not a native English speaker. So my question is: I have several fetishes about my wife but some of them are only active when I am really, really, aroused and lusting after her. So in general I’m not …

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In 2014 I was collaborating with a male friend to write a book on relationships and sex. The basic premise was that we thought it would be great to write a “He says/She says” book consisting of several essays written both individually, to give our unique perspectives, and together. I recently came across one of …

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B.F. wrote: “Great blog, and great YouTube videos! I was researching pegging and found you. I then saw your video on how you love gay porn. My question is, what are your thoughts on bisexual porn or at least bisexual men?” Liz says: Thanks! For anyone unaware of what videos he’s referring to, click here …

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Steve wrote: “Hey Liz, at the risk of sounding prudish, I don’t understand how to dirty talk. During several lovemaking sessions my wife vaguely requested me to “talk dirty to her”.  And I always have no clue what to say. I have tried things like (please excuse the vulgarity) “beg me to fuck your pussy”, …

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G.S. wrote: “I love what you do on your blog. I am a naturist/nudist but I am still turned on by wanting to do CFnm situations (single so I can’t). Even though as I wrote I am so used to seeing naked females, I want to see them in control of me (with her and …

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Steven wrote: “I had long fantasized about trying anal play (myself on the recieving end). I broached the subject to my wife of five years and she was extremely against trying this. Not wanting to push her but having trouble shaking the urge to try this, I opted to try it out alone. I mistakenly …

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