The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Dear Everyone, The computer my hubby Terry and I were using to store and edit my videos has decided to finally kick the bucket. Until we can replace it, I will be focusing on answering letters here on my blog, writing my memoir, and fine art modeling for Terry’s photography. I am so grateful to …

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Curious wrote: “So recently I’ve been discovering my sexuality and I think I’ve found my answer. I believe I am bisexual but I have a preference for men. I would not turn down a female if she was someone I was interested in for the right reasons. I feel comfortable in my identity it’s just …

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There’s a lot of bad advice out there. Sometimes it’s only bad because it’s too simplistic, like “Good communication is the most important for making love last”. Sure, good communication is important, but what exactly is “good” communication? And what about things like compatible personalities, sexual and/or romantic chemistry, and shared values? I recently came …

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B.J. wrote: “Hi Liz. I have a question…is it normal for a man to prefer oral sex over actual intercourse? It seems when my wife and I engage in intercourse, it’s not as pleasurable for me as when she performs oral sex on me. This has caused some frustration in our marriage but my wife …

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J.O. wrote: “Hey Liz, I saw your video about the giantess fetish. I do have that, but how do I tell my girlfriend about it and how do I get her into it?” Liz says: Show her my YouTube video! That’s a great way to get her honest opinion, before you tell her that’s what …

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Vick wrote: “I have two different questions concerning gender equality in dating. The first is paying for the date and the second concerns communication while dating. As a man I always pay for the date just to avoid the awkward discussion. This especially applies for the first date. It is nice however, when the girl …

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It is often spoken to the nervous bride or groom from well-meaning friends or relatives. The fiancé wonders why he’s been procrastinating setting a wedding date and his best friend says it, the bride is crying in the bathroom before the ceremony while her maid of honor says it. “You just have cold feet! Everyone …

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Anon wrote: “Hey Liz, I saw your YouTube video about ball busting fetishes and I wanted to weigh in and seek advice on the topic. I don’t know what it is. I stumbled upon ball busting on the Internet and ever since then I’ve been obsessed or just intrigued by the act. I have once …

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S.T. wrote: “Hi, I watched your YouTube video on belly button fetishes. I have always had a fetish for stomachs and navels. It has ruined my life. It has made dating hard for me and  I feel like I don’t fit in. Do you have any advice for me? I feel creepy having this fetish …

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Itachi310 wrote: “Hey Liz, I just came across your channel and you have a lot of useful advice I can use daily, especially in relationships. I wanted to know if you ever touched on the topic of some men still being a virgin past a certain age like 19-20 (there are A LOT who are …

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