The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Steven wrote: “I had long fantasized about trying anal play (myself on the recieving end). I broached the subject to my wife of five years and she was extremely against trying this. Not wanting to push her but having trouble shaking the urge to try this, I opted to try it out alone. I mistakenly …

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V. wrote: “I am an engaged male in my thirties. I like going to porn theatres to masturbate with other men around. It is thrilling to me and I get very turned on listening to the other men and seeing them jerk off. I have told my future wife and she is ok with it. Am I a …

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L wrote: “Is it ok and normal to masturbate and to look at porn? I tried doing no fap, the no masturbation movement and I usually fail after 20 straight days. It doesn’t effect my personal life. With this no fap movement and all these anti-porn sites I am not sure if porn and masturbation …

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Charles wrote:  “My wife, despite us both only being in our early twenties, has a pretty low sex drive. We get along well and communicate well but we aren’t always on the same page sexually, so I masturbate pretty frequently, usually 4-5 times a week. I always do it in private, but I’m curious how …

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S.H. wrote: “So I’m wondering if I should talk to my girlfriend about putting me in a chastity device. She has very vanilla taste (I talked to her about pegging when we started dating 3 years ago, which was an emphatic no). The reasons behind wanting chastity is multi-faceted. First, I’m in outside sales so …

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A. T. wrote: “I have a girlfriend who only recently we have started having sex. She is 35, I am 34, and I was her first. We are finally at the stage now where we are finally trying new things. My biggest issue right now is I am struggling to cum during sex. She is …

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“GD” asked: “I have a question. I am 24 year old white male and I have a white sister, she is 21 years old and she is dating a black man who is 29 and me and my sister have rooms next to each other, only a wall separates us. Sometimes when I am at home …

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