The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

  I discovered Andrew from listening to an episode of the podcast Voices of Deconversion and quickly found his story both relatable and incredibly insightful. His experiences are unfortunately not unique and I believe it’s important his work (and the similar works of others) should be heard as much as possible in a culture that …

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S.B. wrote: “Hey Liz, hope you’re doing great. Before I got married I used to write in a journal. I’m not great at expressing myself and am often insecure about sharing my thoughts with others so I found it a helpful outlet. Since I’ve been married, 6 years (I’m 26 if that matters) I have …

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Freddie wrote: “Is it ever a bad thing to be attached to someone who is so loving and good to me but has suicidal thoughts every now and then?” Liz says: I think it’s crucial to know the difference between someone who has battled depression or other mental illnesses, sometimes culminating in suicidal ideation, and …

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David wrote: “You seem to dispel a lot of myths about sex that constrain people. I was wondering if you had any thoughts on the alpha/beta binary and, to a lesser extent, the dom/sub binary. This is specifically all within the bedroom. I guess the biggest concern about alpha/beta is whether being conscientious, not being …

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Steve wrote: “I know this isn’t the kind of thing you usually discuss and I hope it’s OK to ask. Two people I know well died in the last couple of months. One was my age, a good friend since high school, and one (two days ago) was someone I did a lot of business …

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E wrote: “Hello Liz, I’m 14 years old and I have a little penis and a ballbusting fetish. 1. My penis is 6 cm, how can I make it bigger? 2. I take everyday more than 40 powerful kicks to my nuts, is it over with my nuts?” Liz says: Who on Earth is kicking …

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“GD” asked: “I have a question. I am 24 year old white male and I have a white sister, she is 21 years old and she is dating a black man who is 29 and me and my sister have rooms next to each other, only a wall separates us. Sometimes when I am at home …

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A.K. asked: “I like female feet so much, whenever I see any beautiful feet I like to worship them, but how can I remove this thing from my brain? Please advice me, thanks.” Liz says: Your letter leaves me with many questions. Why do you want to “remove” it from your brain? What is happening …

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Everyone’s talking about trigger warnings these days. College professors are coming out against them. Are they necessary? Do any studies prove their efficacy? Could they potentially backfire, and actually cause more harm than good? In this week’s video I weigh in on the controversy, so click here to watch and remember to weigh in with …

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