Monogamy Is Important To Him But Ex Wanted To Have An Open Relationship

  Sam wrote: “I had a question that’s been bugging me a lot lately. I know that people can be in whatever relationship they want and all that. But monogamy has always been important for me. The problem is that I keep hearing people say things about how hard monogamy is and how you can’t …

He Would Never Be Okay With His Partner Having a “Hall Pass”

Mark wrote: “I’m worried a partner would want to have a hallpass or a threesome, and I’m not okay with that at all. It makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong or they need to be able to have better sex that I could provide or something. Am I doing something wrong if I’ll …

He’s Married and Misses Feeling “Butterflies”

J.T. wrote: “I’m in my mid-40s and in the 7th year of my second marriage. I absolutely love my wife with everything I have. We fit each other so perfectly that we can finish each other’s sentences, we each are okay with doing chores the other hates to do. I do all the cooking, she …