The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

BB wrote: “I am happily married and am trying to figure out how to talk to my wife about a specific sexual desire. Pegging. I have wanted to ask her for some time if she would want to peg me. I just can’t get up the courage. We have a great relationship and we have amazing …

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I receive a lot of letters from men who want their female partners to don a strap-on and ride them into the sunset. “How do I get my girlfriend/wife try it?” or “Does this make me gay?” are the most frequent questions asked. First, let’s go over the reasons why a man would want to …

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Anonymous wrote: “I’ve just stumbled across your videos and blog. I’ve seen a lot on men wearing female clothing, pegging, cuckold, ect. I do all of these, but my wife has added a twist each month. When she is on her period she makes me wear an overnight pad the entire time until it’s over. …

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Mariah wrote: “I have an issue that I don’t know how to solve. My fiance wants me use a strap-on with him but I am conflicted. I want to please him but I am a submissive. I am not into role reversal that much. I love being dominated. I just feel like if I go …

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B.F. wrote: “Great blog, and great YouTube videos! I was researching pegging and found you. I then saw your video on how you love gay porn. My question is, what are your thoughts on bisexual porn or at least bisexual men?” Liz says: Thanks! For anyone unaware of what videos he’s referring to, click here …

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R.L. wrote: “I’d be interested in hearing your take on me. I am straight. My girl describes her self as a lesbian with penis envy. I have never had intercourse with her. I have given her oral and received (very rough) anal with oversized dildos. She is dominant. Over time I agreed to be feminized. …

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“Steve” wrote: “I recently discovered your YouTube channel and I love your approach to all sorts of sociological and psychological issues. I’m a straight male, happily married for 4 years. My wife and I are observant Jews and each other’s first sexual partners. Something I did not know about myself is that I love anal …

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S.H. wrote: “So I’m wondering if I should talk to my girlfriend about putting me in a chastity device. She has very vanilla taste (I talked to her about pegging when we started dating 3 years ago, which was an emphatic no). The reasons behind wanting chastity is multi-faceted. First, I’m in outside sales so …

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“Jennifer” wrote: “Hi Liz. Thank you for your insightful website and Youtube channel. 🙂 My husband Euan and I have been married now for 3 and a bit years but have been together for close to 10. I’ve always known he has Asperger’s syndrome and various little kinks which I find cute. He has a …

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BB88 wrote: “I am a 28 year old African-American and I have a question. I went on a date with a 24 year old white girl and the date was awesome then after the date we went to her place and she gave me a blow job. The next time we went after a date …

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