The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

For a few decades now, women have been spreading awareness of how narrowly defined female beauty is and how thinness has been idolized to the point that females will starve themselves and sometimes die in their quest for the “ideal body”. We blamed fashion magazines, we blamed men, we blamed Hollywood. We asked, “Why are …

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Mark wrote: “Hi Liz, I’ve been watching your YouTube videos and reading some material on your site. I really like your take on a lot of things. With that said, I have a couple questions. I’m a straight male who enjoys wearing men’s thongs. I think they are the sexiest thing and I love how …

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Max wrote: “I’ve had an issue recently where no matter what I read or what I’m told, I find it hard to get past some really toxic and depressing ideas. I don’t feel very attractive, so I feel like to be with a woman I would constantly have to prove that I’m good enough to …

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“Matt” wrote: “I just found your channel. After looking over a few of your video titles it sounds like a pretty interesting channel. I’m looking forward to watching your videos. So I have a question for you: every female now owns a pair of yoga pants, right? Sure, when they first came out they were …

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C.M. asked: “So here’s the question. How does someone know if they’re good in bed? Here’s why I ask. I’m well endowed, #BigDickProblems and all that, and most women are impressed with my size. Actual comments about me: “Damn boy, I thought you were big, but not that big!” (Her talking to friends) “He made …

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In today’s video I answer a question about a specific turn-off that I find particularly peculiar. Can any of you relate to this letter-writer’s turn-off? I understand we all differ in what we sexually and romantically respond to, but come on now 😉 Click here to watch it and share your opinions, stories, recipes, etc. …

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Greetings, Friends! In this week’s video I answer an interesting letter. I couldn’t personally relate to the letter-writer’s predicament, but I’m curious how many of you can. What taboo relationships have you been involved in? XOXO, Liz LaPoint

Fashion designer Carolina Herrera repeated a cliche recently in an interview, during which she was asked about the current celebrity/fashion trend of naked dresses (exhibit A, below). She dismissed the trend, and said, “In life, there should be a little mystery.” Ah, she trotted out the “mystery” line. You’ve heard it before. It’s used to …

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K.J. asked: “I met a cute girl at the bar this weekend when I was hanging with friends. She seemed interested in me, since she was always smiling and asking me questions. I was drunk but I told her that she was cute and asked for her number. But instead she just said I should …

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