The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Emily wrote: “I’m having some trouble with my boyfriend. He’s not had a lot of confidence in the bedroom with me, and while that seemed normal enough, it’s actually gotten worse as we’ve tried to deal with it. He confessed to me that before we were together he watched a lot of porn. He says that …

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Max wrote: “I’ve had an issue recently where no matter what I read or what I’m told, I find it hard to get past some really toxic and depressing ideas. I don’t feel very attractive, so I feel like to be with a woman I would constantly have to prove that I’m good enough to …

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Liz: “I discovered you and your website, http://www.sextherapytoronto.org back in November of 2015 when I needed to defer to someone with professional experience in treating sexual dysfunctions and other issues. I had received a letter from a foot fetishist who wanted to know how to “get rid of” his fetish. Your website provided me with …

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V. wrote: “I am an engaged male in my thirties. I like going to porn theatres to masturbate with other men around. It is thrilling to me and I get very turned on listening to the other men and seeing them jerk off. I have told my future wife and she is ok with it. Am I a …

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L wrote: “Is it ok and normal to masturbate and to look at porn? I tried doing no fap, the no masturbation movement and I usually fail after 20 straight days. It doesn’t effect my personal life. With this no fap movement and all these anti-porn sites I am not sure if porn and masturbation …

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Charles wrote:  “My wife, despite us both only being in our early twenties, has a pretty low sex drive. We get along well and communicate well but we aren’t always on the same page sexually, so I masturbate pretty frequently, usually 4-5 times a week. I always do it in private, but I’m curious how …

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“Ed” asked: “What do most girls think of facials (when a guy shoots his cum all over her face)? What percentage of girls do you think are ok with this?” Liz says: I’m going to take a wild guess that most chicks would rather be chained to Ted Cruz’s radiator than take a splash in …

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I only scratched the surface with this week’s video, as there’s a slew of other avenues we could go down with a conversation about what is art and what is pornography. What line does a piece have to cross before you consider it porn? Why is being sexually objectified in art bad, but being completely …

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Happy Hump Day, Readers 😉 Everyone is aware of the standard straight guy’s fantasy of having two women in bed and getting off on watching lesbian porn, but few people are aware the opposite is also true of many straight women. In the U.S., there’s an assumption that all women are fluid in their sexuality, …

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