The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Max wrote: “I’ve had an issue recently where no matter what I read or what I’m told, I find it hard to get past some really toxic and depressing ideas. I don’t feel very attractive, so I feel like to be with a woman I would constantly have to prove that I’m good enough to …

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Anon wrote: “Hey Liz, I saw your YouTube video about ball busting fetishes and I wanted to weigh in and seek advice on the topic. I don’t know what it is. I stumbled upon ball busting on the Internet and ever since then I’ve been obsessed or just intrigued by the act. I have once …

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J.G. wrote: “Hi. I’m a 28 year-old disabled guy. I’m not good looking and never had sex or been in a relationship. I am becoming more self-conscious about this, as most people I know have had several partners by my age. I’m too shy to even act interested in women for fear of being humiliated …

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K.S. wrote: “My best friend is in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. He has beat her multiple times and recently when she spent the weekend at her friend’s house he showed up at their door in a drunken rage. They called the police on him and now she’s saying that she doesn’t want to …

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Maria asks: “My question is not specific to dating, but it relates to emotional abuse, so I thought you could help. I have finally come to realize (I’m 49) that my mother is probably BPD. She will fly into a rage for no reason, then 10 minutes later it’s like it never happened and you’re not …

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John asked: “This girl has come into my life and she’s very damaged from past relationships. I’m not as much seeking damaged women to help them, I just really like this girl and want to help her. She doesn’t trust me, right, which why would she because she doesn’t know me that well. We have …

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Rose asked: “I really don’t know what to do, I constantly go around and around with this. I’ll start talking to a guy and we’ll go out a time or two, then I’ll just put out and he’ll leave not too long after. Now I know I shouldn’t be doing this but it seems like …

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Paul asked: “I recently broke up with my girlfriend, and I’m feeling guilty. She’s a wonderful woman, but hell to live with, and I just couldn’t take it anymore. In her eyes I was a terrible person, although she wanted me to stay. I’m not a terrible person, and since leaving her I’ve felt much …

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