The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

I receive a lot of letters from men who want their female partners to don a strap-on and ride them into the sunset. “How do I get my girlfriend/wife try it?” or “Does this make me gay?” are the most frequent questions asked. First, let’s go over the reasons why a man would want to …

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Emily wrote: “I’m having some trouble with my boyfriend. He’s not had a lot of confidence in the bedroom with me, and while that seemed normal enough, it’s actually gotten worse as we’ve tried to deal with it. He confessed to me that before we were together he watched a lot of porn. He says that …

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D wrote: “For almost 20 years, the taboo “family” fantasy has been the most *ahem* effective for me. Whether alone or with almost every sexual partner, I’ve had the most degenerate incestuous thoughts, and they are what keep me aroused and push me to climax. Almost any combination of forbidden encounters among faceless, imaginary relatives …

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Chris wrote: “So I’m 22 and recently just graduated college. My sex life hasn’t really been bad with girls overall. I’ve had a good amount of different sexual partners, like 15 or so and have had sex many times and usually it’s no problem getting it up with them when I finally get there with …

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Karl wrote: “I watched both of your videos on your YouTube channel about foot fetishes, and I’d like to add some insights about this attraction (having myself a sexual attraction to feet): – You mention that feet are often associated with domination/submission. While I’m sure this is often the case, it isn’t always so. In …

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Phil wrote: “I accidently bumped into your YouTube channel today and I have to admit I really enjoyed the content. You’re a very open-minded, fun, and most importantly passionate person. I thought I could share my case. Well, since I can remember I have daydreamed about being dominated by hot girls. I never truly accepted …

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B.F. wrote: “Great blog, and great YouTube videos! I was researching pegging and found you. I then saw your video on how you love gay porn. My question is, what are your thoughts on bisexual porn or at least bisexual men?” Liz says: Thanks! For anyone unaware of what videos he’s referring to, click here …

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Steve wrote: “My wife gave birth 5 weeks ago. Obviously we haven’t been sexually intimate since and now she too is feeling… repressed lol. The thing is, things are still rough down there, and she asked how I feel about trying anal sex. I am super eager to try this, we’ve never done it and …

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Steven wrote: “I had long fantasized about trying anal play (myself on the recieving end). I broached the subject to my wife of five years and she was extremely against trying this. Not wanting to push her but having trouble shaking the urge to try this, I opted to try it out alone. I mistakenly …

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B. W. wrote: “So sometimes, idk why, but I just can’t be on bottom, I can’t stay hard. Same with getting oral…. it’s pissed off some girlfriends. I’ve concluded it’s a control issue that forms randomly. I’m 6’8 so I don’t exactly fit with all people. But say I’m in control… rock hard! Especially of she’s …

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