Her Feet Turned Him Off, Now What?

S wrote: “Hi Liz, I’ve been seeing a colleague of mine lately. She’s amazing, beautiful and very sweet. But once I saw her feet and it really turned me off. It kind of changed my thoughts about her. How should I act?” Liz says: If something about someone is a big turn-off, you can’t force …

How Do You Get A Woman To Go Home With You That Night?

Doug wrote: “When I’m out there trying to date, or just talking it up with someone at a bar, I don’t know how to ask them to go back and have sex! I just can’t seal the deal! I feel like I’m making it way more complicated/ awkward than it really is and that’s why they …

The 23 Year Old Virgin

Itachi310 wrote: “Hey Liz, I just came across your channel and you have a lot of useful advice I can use daily, especially in relationships. I wanted to know if you ever touched on the topic of some men still being a virgin past a certain age like 19-20 (there are A LOT who are …

Why Did His Last 4 Dates Totally Ignore Him Afterward?

M.C. asks: “I don’t know why but the last 4 girls I met online and asked out ghosted on me after the first date. I think I’m a pretty cool guy, I’m smart, have a great job, am reasonably good-looking. I’m not asking for much, I’m not picky, but I do expect to at least …

Do You Need To “Leave A Little Mystery”?

Fashion designer Carolina Herrera repeated a cliche recently in an interview, during which she was asked about the current celebrity/fashion trend of naked dresses (exhibit A, below). She dismissed the trend, and said, “In life, there should be a little mystery.” Ah, she trotted out the “mystery” line. You’ve heard it before. It’s used to …

The Worst Date I’ve Ever Been On

Mixed-Up Feelings = A Letter To The Naked Advice

Ashley asked: “I’m about two months into my current relationship and I think I might be catching feelings for someone else. I’m actually so confused about the whole thing. I really do like my boyfriend and he is a great guy, but my feelings are totally mixed up right now. I don’t know what to …

Myth-Busting Time!

“Someone who’s a great dancer is going to be good in bed.” Tessa and I had just arrived at The Bounce, wearing little clothes and big hair, and immediately descended upon the bartenders. Tessa and I got our cocktails and stood by the dance floor, sipping and eyeing the man candy. We were 21 years …