The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

Mark wrote: “I was wondering if you had any thoughts on mental illness and sexuality. I’ve always felt very dominant in the bedroom, but there’s a psychological side of being dominant that’s become much harder for me as I’ve developed depression and issues with anxiety. Being submissive feels inauthentic, but it’s a little easier to …

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Being aroused by tickle torture is a fascinating thing, and here to share his experience and thoughts on the matter is Franco, a tickle fetishist! Liz: Are you most aroused by being tickled, or being the tickler? Would you say that most people with this fetish fall under one or the other, or are there …

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Thomas wrote: “Hey Liz. I’m 23. My question is about ball-busting. I can’t remember when I got into it exactly but eventually about a year and a half ago I started seeking this from girls. I built up a tolerance and now it’s all I like. Now I don’t even try to have sex or …

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The Hubby and I are not vanilla in the bedroom, SHOCKING I know. We are both free-spirits who enjoy experimenting, so last night we enjoyed some S&M lite, so to speak. I only say “lite” because I imagine it’s much more hardcore when actual sado-masochists use bondage gear to satisfy their sexual proclivities, but for …

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Romantic Comedies/Dramas/Thrillers are usually too cheesy and ridiculous to me. Love Actually? Way overrated. There’s Something About Mary? Dumb humor, barely passable. The Wedding Singer? Hated it. You get the idea. I agree with almost every accusation hurled at romantic films: they perpetuate unhealthy notions of love and the idea that any guy can convince …

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J.V. wrote: “My boyfriend wants to A2M (ass to mouth) with me. I’m concerned it could be dangerous though, do you have any experience or information to help me figure out if this is safe? I don’t mind doing either individually, I’m not sure about one right after another like that.” Liz says: There’s a …

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Josh wrote: “Is it normal I like cumming on women’s faces? I know it’s something kind of “invented” by the porn industry, but I find it very satisfying. Not all woman are into it, but there is something about seeing my load all over a woman’s face that really turns me on. I truly have …

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R.L.G. wrote: “My girlfriend knows I have a fetish: I like my dick being stomped on, trampled on, and stood on barefoot. But I’m not sure how to ask her. How do I tell her I want to feel my balls crush under her feet?” Liz says: You mean she knows but hasn’t offered yet? …

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John wrote: “I am drawn to the lifestyle of a female-led relationship. Men who love their wives and work hard everyday so that their wives do not need to have jobs. When they come home from work, they cook and clean. Although they make the money and pay the bills, the excess money is controlled …

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Boot Lover wrote: “When I was about 16 years old I realised I had a “thing” for women wearing knee high boots. There was one girl at school who did, and it’s not as if she was someone I lusted after or the one that every guy wanted. She was nice, and I realised that …

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