The Naked Advice

Model & Writer Liz LaPoint answers your questions about dating, sex, and relationships

J.M. wrote: “I am a 21 yr old male virgin but I am not a ”typical” male virgin; I’m reasonably popular, don’t play video games, enjoy sports, and have a toned upper body. Also, I’m not socially awkward, and I can talk to and hold conversations with girls whether I have a crush on them …

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Thomas wrote: “I lost my virginity a little more than 2 years ago and hadn’t had sex since, until last week I had sex with a girl and I feel I performed poorly. I however feel a huge burden lifted off my shoulders. Ya see, both of these times I really wasn’t in a relationship …

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Itachi310 wrote: “Hey Liz, I just came across your channel and you have a lot of useful advice I can use daily, especially in relationships. I wanted to know if you ever touched on the topic of some men still being a virgin past a certain age like 19-20 (there are A LOT who are …

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J.G. wrote: “Hi. I’m a 28 year-old disabled guy. I’m not good looking and never had sex or been in a relationship. I am becoming more self-conscious about this, as most people I know have had several partners by my age. I’m too shy to even act interested in women for fear of being humiliated …

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“Allen” asked: “Until very recently, I was a 22 year old virgin, who is so painfully shy I can barely talk to women without getting flustered and nervous. I am in decent shape and not hideous, although a little nerdy. I recently met a girl in a coffee shop near my college who shared my …

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I’m sure many of you are already aware of the dudes behind the movement to slut-shame women into staying virgins before marriage. #PoppedCherryDontMarry and #NoHymenNoDiamond have been sporadically trending on Twitter since October 2014, much to the chagrin of intelligent people everywhere. In this week’s video, I share my opinions on why there’s a subset …

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Hi Readers! Purity culture in the U.S., abstinence-only sex education (which is an oxymoron), and fathers who have a misguided idea of how to keep their daughters virgins until marriage are all topics that have been dissected, analyzed, and challenged for years now. I weigh in with my views, and bust a myth that still …

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